I Want My Lick Back

Sep 13, 2026    Pastor Darrio Melton

What happens when the very opportunity we have been waiting for finally arrives, but taking it would cost us our integrity? That is the raw, uncomfortable question sitting at the heart of this message drawn from 1 Samuel 26. We follow David into a darkened enemy camp, where his pursuer Saul lies completely vulnerable and unguarded. Every human instinct says this is the moment. The score can finally be settled. Yet David walks away, taking only the spear and the jug of water as quiet proof that he had every right to strike and chose not to. The central lesson is both simple and staggering: just because an opportunity is open does not mean it is ordained. We are challenged to examine the difference between divine providence and what is really just our flesh finding a convenient moment to call God's name on its own agenda. The message draws on the psychological concept of retributive impulse, that deep craving in human nature to see pain returned for pain, and holds it up against the standard of spiritual maturity. We are reminded that the real battle in this text is not between David and Saul. It is between David and David. Between the oil of anointing on his head and the anger still living in his chest. That interior war is one many of us know personally, and this message invites us to name it honestly and bring it before God.